11 Simple Ways TO Find True love

This is a step I am planning to take not so long from now, and I am recommending it to friends, colleagues and fellow Nigerian males and females, Pls read carefully and feel free to add up vital points too.


1.Stop assessing people based on their outward physical appearance only if you want to find true lasting love. what do I mean by this? Stop dreaming and wishing to have a perfect person with perfect body and physical features and at the same with all wonderful and commendable human character and behavior...wake up to reality

2.Stop assuming that all girls are materialistic and gold-diggers even though it may seem to be the order of the day amongst today ladies; just try hard to believe that there is one good, decent, well-trained girl out there for you

3.Stop wishing and daydreaming to have things that aren’t real- stop living under the influence of movie, music or media life meant to portray life as a rosy-rosy win-win affair that it isn’t

4.Read inspiring books and learn from other people’s experience

5.Be open when you meet an opposite gender irrespective of their social, economic or academic status, he/she may be that special one you had been searching and praying for

6.Look beyond people’s present condition (because the future we hear daily is a highly unpredictable being) when you meet them- be it in school, at work, in churches, etc…later I will share a story of some of my colleagues as a lesson to guide some of us reading this

7.Always be free, do not allow your past encounters with the opposite gender ruin your chances of meeting that special person- let the past be the past for there is no bad relationship in life because the ones you see as bad were only meant to teach a lesson that will help you understand life more and value the good one about to come

8.Do not keep too many friends of the opposite gender because this maybe sending the wrong signal to some people watching- I know quite sure that many people will object to this because they would counsel keeping friends with the opposite gender, but if you must, make it a sizable number of probably not more than three for a healthy lifestyle

9.don’t ever make the mistake of allowing your beauty or status (if you’re a female), looks and status (if you are a male) to overcome your sense of good judgment, which will make you see people of the opposite gender as worthless or below standard

10.Stop believing that all men coming towards you are after your body because most honorable men out for good don't give a damn about it!

11.finally, avoid being pompous, extreme, or acting like you are the best when dealing with people in all situations